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If you’ve been crushed lately or at any point in your life, this page is for you.

This space was created for the one who learned to shrink to survive.
For the one who was told, directly or indirectly, that they were too much.
Too loud. Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too visible. Too real.

This is for the one who learned to quiet their voice so others wouldn’t feel uncomfortable.
For the one who made themselves smaller to keep the peace.
For the one who stayed silent, not because they had nothing to say, but because it felt safer that way.

This is for the one who was betrayed by people they trusted.
For the one who was minimized in relationships, friendships, family, or work.
For the one who was overlooked, compared, or made to feel replaceable.

This is for the one who lost someone they loved —
and had to keep going anyway.
For the one carrying grief that doesn’t always have words.
For the one learning how to live with absence.

This is for the one whose body was criticized, controlled, judged, or made to feel like a problem.
For the one who learned to disconnect from themselves just to get through the day.
For the one holding shame they never earned.

This is for the one rebuilding after heartbreak.
After illness.
After disappointment.
After the slow erosion of self that happens when you spend too long being who others needed you to be.

UNDIM was created as a reminder.
A reminder of the parts of you that never disappeared —
even when you had to hide them,
even when you doubted them,
even when the world tried to dim them.

Nothing here exists to change you.
Everything here exists to reflect something back to you.

Your strength.
Your softness.
Your truth.
Your light.

If this resonates, you’re not imagining it.
And you’re not alone.

You belong here.

Your light was never meant to be dimmed.